Writing Through Revelations, Visions and Dreams

Stella Pope Duarte‘s new book, Writing through Revelations, Visions, and Dreams, the memoir of a writers’s soul, is an intriguing book. Stella does much more than tell stories from her own life, she invites us to wake up and pay attention to the signs in our lives.

Book_Cover__FinalDreams may well be prophecies, but “To become reality a prophecy needs the cooperation from the one who received the message,” she writes.

She struggled for weeks to understand the dream she had about her father, who said to her, “It’s right there, mija, in front of you, what you have to do next.” What was she supposed to see? Why wouldn’t her father tell her? But she didn’t let it go or forget it. She stayed aware, waiting for more information. She didn’t run to look up what the dream meant in a dream book, because only the dreamer can untangle the meanings of dreams. She continued to question the dream until she was in a bookstore, and a book fell off the shelf at her feet. It was a book abou a  South African woman of mixed race and the love and hate she experienced. It dawned on Stella that this woman’s values were similar to her own, even if they lived thousands of miles apart. “She wrote what she knew,” and at that moment, Stella understood that it was the hallmark of every writer, and she could no longer distance herself from her own past.

In her talk at Changing Hands Bookstore on Thursday night, Stella told us sheStella finally discovered that her father had foretold her becoming a writer. As a family therapist and a college professor, she had thought her career was in place, but her life of writing hadn’t begun. (Stella won the National Book Award for If I Die in Juárez in 2009)

Stella tells rapid-fire stories about growing up in Phoenix’s poorest barrio and living with domestic violence for years. She is brutally honest about this time in her life and what she learned from it. She shows the following slide:

angelStellaIt says, “If you come to terms with the dark parts of who you are,  you won’t have to marry them.” It was a profound moment. We are so attracted to what we are not, and feel it missing in our lives. It seems tempting and exotic, and yet, once we marry it, it becomes the foreign irritant in our lives that we struggle to change. We all know about the futility of changing other people, but that is the dance we do–we see the dark other parts of ourselves in a lover, we want it manifested, and when it does, we want to distance ourselves from it. You can’t do both, at least not at the same time.

The book is a combination of memoir, self-help for writers, and a comfort for those of us who have dreams that confuse and inspire us. The slim, 162-page volume is a quick read and an interesting view into the heart of a writer.

--Quinn McDonald couldn’t stay home and write; she had to go hear Stella Pope Duarte speak. And she’s glad she did.

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8 responses to “Writing Through Revelations, Visions and Dreams

  1. Thanks for the update, Quinn. I look forward to hearing the resolution to your “dilemma” of what to do with the unfinished quilt. I am going through something similar (re: a decision I need to make) and I am waiting (patience) until I know for sure in my gut which way to go. Patience, is also a big piece of that for me as well. As always, thanks for your inspiring, thought provoking posts. I hope you are enjoying your weekend. I am out of town visiting “old” friends and celebrating my birthday which is today!!

    • Happy Belated Birthday, Barbara! I hope it was everything you wanted in a good day. I spent the weekend coordinating the photographs for the book and finishing chapters 4, 5, and 6. No play time, but got a lot done!

  2. I appreciate your blog so much Quinn.
    It is your book I am waiting for the most.

  3. What a synchronistic post for me; several unusual dreams in the past weeks have come to me. I write about the parts, recording as much dream memory as possible, thinking about the unscrambling of data that seems unfamiliar, but interesting. The local library does not have the book so I just ordered it and will enjoy learning some of her insights to the process of unraveling the dream stories. Thanks for the post, Quinn.
    Kristin

  4. I’m not sure why Quinn, but this post is making me think of the quilt your mother never finished for you. What did you finally decide to do with it? I’m sorry if I missed this info in one of your posts after you shared your “quilt dilemma” with us. I am curious to know what finally happened with it. Thanks again for sharing your thoughts, experiences, insights, art etc. on your blog. I look forward to reading your words every week!

    • Thanks for asking. I’m waiting for one more piece of the puzzle to fall into place, and then I’ll do a blog post about it. Like Stella, I’m waiting for that book to jump off the shelf at me, or the equivalent! Patience is a big piece of this, unfortunately.

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