You’ve heard it before. You are in a class and the instructor says, “All you need in ten minutes to do X right when you get up.” Nothing takes 10 minutes, least of all right when you get up. If you lined up all those 10 minutes for exercise, writing, spiritual practice, organizing or pet walking for every class you’ve taken, you’d have to start at 5 a.m. and stay up till midnight.
So how are you ever going to get a daily practice of writing, art, music, dance, meditation, anything—in and stay alive?
I have an alternative answer. All of us have the same amount of time in a day—24 hours. They aren’t making any more. So getting up earlier or staying up later is not the issue. You are booked. Your day is full. If you want to a daily practice, you have to choose.
Choose one thing over another. For most artists, everything else comes first. We got into that habit with the day job. Work came first, then kids, housecleaning, pets and art came dragging along late at night. No wonder it didn’t earn a living. You treated your art as it it were an afterthought.
Move art making as a daily practice to the top of the list. Fit in a day job, eating, and sleeping. Everything else drops down the list.
You not only don’t have to do all the housework yourself, sometimes it doesn’t get a priority at all. My house is hardly ever company ready. Cat hair swirls in the corners of the staircase. I don’t have dust bunnies, I have dust buffaloes. But I write, meditate and read every day. Because I changed priorities.
I used to do all my chores on time–vacuum, dust, clean bathrooms, empty dishwasher, do laundry. . .the list is impressive. At the end of the day, I was too tired to be creative. Then I gave myself permission to let the housekeeping slide. Not forever, but some cleaning doesn’t get done until it needs to. I use the time to focus on my art, write, or daydream. Daydreaming is important for creativity. (You can learn how, if you don’t know).
If you are a recovering perfectionist, the scenario of not-cleaning sounds awful. I challenge you to try it. The only rule is that you must use the time not-cleaning to be creative. Not-cleaning is your time, no fair using it to pay bills, drive the kids to soccer, or other chores. Not-cleaning is your creative time. Try it, and see if there isn’t room for not-cleaning in your life.
–Quinn McDonald has a daily practice of writing, but she insists people call before they drop by. She is a certified creativity coach. See her work at QuinnCreative.com Dust bunny image: answers.com