Be the Creativity Whisperer

Cesar Millan may be the Dog Whisperer, but his method works pretty well for the unruly, leash-tugging creative urge. You know that creative muse–the one you desperately want in your life,  that disappears around the corner and won’t come when called. When she does show up, she runs you ragged. You are off to buy materials and supplies, while your muse stays at home, piling choices on your studio table, and running you ragged with ideas, projects and commitments that you can’t manage.

The Dog Whisperer has a formula. If you’ve watched the show, you already know what it is. It’s on his website: “Through my fulfillment formula exercise, then discipline, and finally, affection.  As the human pack leader, you must set rules, boundaries, and limitations and always project a calm-assertive energy.”

The “calm-assertive energy” comes first. It’s not about being a control freak, it’s knowing that you are the calm leader of your creative energy and your studio.  You aren’t forever using the excuse that you have a coupon and heading out to the craft store. You are centered and know what your project is.

You set the rules, boundaries and limitations for your studio. Here are some good ones to start with:

  • Know what your project is.
  • Know what your project is not. If you are going to create a journal page, don’t worry about creating the whole journal.
  • Leave the studio set up so you can begin. Nothing saps energy faster than having to spend an hour cleaning the studio and another finding what you want to work on.
  • Put extra materials away. It’s distracting to see unfinished project lying around.
  • Set a time to start and be there to start the project.
  • If you have an appointment, set a timer to remind you when to stop. You can’t work deeply if you keep having to check on the clock.
  • Keep a paper and pencil around to take notes as you work. Once you get to the studio, you will immediately think of “work” that needs to get done before you start. Stay in the studio, make a to-do list. The laundry will still be there when you leave.

The rest of Millan’s ideas work just as well: exercise, discipline, affection.

Exercise is a way to burn off tension in your body. It makes room for creative ideas. While you are exercising, a part of your brain is problem solving. That’s good for your brain and your body. Burn off that exhausting adrenaline energy.

Discipline is not punishment. Discipline allows space and time for deep, meaningful work. Discipline allows you to turn off the phone, shut the computer off and head for the studio. It is a set time to work without guilt or fear.  Discipline is an approach to creative time that includes knowing what will happen–you will work meaningfully, for a set amount of time, on a regular basis.

Affection is allowing yourself to feel good about yourself and your work. Affection is allowing yourself to try and fail, to try something different, to follow a thought or idea until it works or until you know why it doesn’t.

Just as Cesar Millan projects a calm, assertive pack-leader image to his dogs, you can project a calm, assertive creative leader image to your muse. If she pays attention, it might even work!

–Quinn McDonald admits to whispering at her muses occasionally, and sometimes yelling at them, too. She’s working on it.

10 thoughts on “Be the Creativity Whisperer

  1. Hmmm, maybe we are talking about the same thing in different ways. I go work in my studio even when I don’t feel particularly inspired. I realize that art takes practice, that it’s a discipline. But when the muse descends, or appears, work of a whole other order happens. Work that surprises, delights, sometimes even scares me. Thinking I could beckon or tame a muse seems antithetical to benefiting from the power a muse can bestow.

    • Yes, that’s it. Over time, I’ve managed to be able to sink into flow at will, at least some of the time. It’s taken a long time, and it doesn’t always work, but it’s a skill I would dearly love to perfect.

  2. “As the human pack leader, you must set rules, boundaries, and limitations and always project a calm-assertive energy.” Well, that´s the way I raised my kids. 😀 Who knew it would be good for my muse too. Do you think we could try it on Inner? 😉

    • Yep. And that’s what makes discipline so important–at least to me. I do a variety of work, and my Muse often points to the money maker as “really important right now,” to distract me. She’s right about keeping a roof over my head, but not at the expense of ignoring the much harder work of art.

  3. Good one, Quinn. I like the way you worked with this.But I’m not quite sure if It will help me leash or unleash my creativity. Really, I think the muse is the pack leader and I have to wait until she whispers to me.

    • Depends on your Muse, I guess. Mine can be focused on everything EXCEPT creative work, so I have to be pack leader. If I waited for my Muse to get everything in order for creative work, I could rent out the studio.

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