Rules usually come from pretty good experiences and reasons. But as good as the reasons are, life changes and shifts. It’s good to consider change from time to time. Oh, sure, you’ll be met with “We’ve always done it this way,” and “If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it,”
Here’s a real-life example. I have three different walking routes: a winter one, a summer one, and a really long one (reserved for cooler days when I have enough time.) I’ve been walking the winter route, even though it’s June. I’ve gotten used to it, and a few times I wonder why I’m not walking the “summer” route. But I’m so used to the winter one, I just kept on walking.
The other day, my walk started just at dawn. For half the walk, I was facing into the sun. On the part that has me walking North, my face cooked on my right side. (Yes I wear sunscreen. It’s still hot, and the hat is not big enough to provide shade). On the second half, which is unshaded, the sun cooked my back. In winter, on that same route, when the sun rises later, I don’t get the sun in my face, but it warms my back.
So, tomorrow, it’s the return to the summer route. My back will be to the sun for the first half, a tall line of trees for the cross section, and the sun high enough so a slightly tilted brim shields my face on the home stretch.
Here is how we make and use rules:
1. We study the problem with the way things are now.
2. We make rules to solve the problem.
3. Time happens, things change, we still use the old rules.
Every now and then, when you are used to the rules, think about why they were made. It’s good to question them, and just as good to change them when they need changing.
This is particularly true about ideas we have about success, goals, careers, and the definition of happiness.
–Quinn McDonald loves change, but not for change’s sake.